Sunday, June 1, 2025

You know you are from Arvada

You could always tell what flavor Jolly Rancher was making that day. The smell would drift across Ward Road on the wind, cherry or watermelon or grape, sweetening the air like some kind of everyday magic. We'd ride our bikes down that hill with no helmets—because who wore helmets?—and breathe it in deep, this sugar-scented promise that the world was good and we were young and everything mattered and nothing mattered at all.

That was Arvada. That was home.

It was the place where Officer McCarthy drove around in his little VW Bug with the long black eyelashes, visiting schools like some kind benevolent cartoon character come to life. Where Royce walked the neighborhoods with his suitcase full of lightbulbs, and we all knew his name because in a town like that, you knew everyone's story. Where Tom Spear pushed his bike and trailer through the streets, our local legend, the foosball champion who carried his victories and his demons in equal measure.

Friday nights meant Griff's burgers that were somehow perfect in their imperfection, grease-soaked and dangerous and absolutely essential. We'd pile into cars after football games—Panthers, Warriors, Redskins, it didn't matter which colors you wore, we were all just kids figuring it out together—and cruise the strip until our parents called us home. The sex lights on 64th were our north star, our inside joke, our secret handshake with a place that understood teenage rebellion came in small, harmless doses.

Saturday mornings meant Western Bowl, where the pins crashed like thunder and the carpet was that particular shade of bowling alley brown that exists nowhere else in nature. Or maybe we'd hit Jerry's Pool Hall, where the older kids seemed impossibly cool and the honey buns came off the grill with butter melting into every sweet crevice. That underground arcade was our cave of wonders, quarters disappearing into machines that promised nothing but delivered everything we needed.

Sundays were for Tam's and those giant egg rolls that defied physics, served by waitresses who called everyone "hon" and meant it. Or Bernard's, where families gathered for dinner and the portions were generous and nobody hurried you along. These weren't just restaurants—they were institutions, gathering places, the backdrop for first dates and family celebrations and those ordinary moments that only become precious in the rearview mirror.

Summer meant the pools—Meyers, McFadden, Ralston with its legendary high dive—where we'd spend entire days turning brown as berries, racing each other across the water, learning the social hierarchies that would matter until September and then not at all. The ice skating rink next door promised winter adventures, hockey games and wobbly first attempts at grace on ice that forgave nothing and taught us everything about getting back up.

We shopped at Eakers for back-to-school clothes, wandered the aisles of Duckwall's looking for treasures we didn't know we needed, spent allowance money at Sweets Records hunting for the perfect album to soundtrack our feelings. The drive-in theater on Wadsworth was where we learned about movies and making out and the particular magic of stories told under stars.

The landscape shaped us in ways we're only now beginning to understand. Hackberry Hill and Pumpkin Hill and Snob Hill—each one a kingdom in our geography of growing up. Ralston Creek that flooded and reminded us nature had its own timeline. The water tower that some brave soul spray-painted, marking territory in the way teenagers always have and always will.

We were small-town kids on the edge of a big city, close enough to Denver to know there was a wider world but far enough away to grow up slow and safe and sure of our place in things. We had Harvest Festival every September, where the whole town came together and we remembered what community felt like. We had high school football on Friday nights under lights that made everything seem epic and important and eternal.

Rocky Flats loomed in our peripheral vision, this mysterious place where some of our parents worked, this reminder that the adult world held complexities we weren't ready for yet. But mostly we were shielded from all that, free to be kids in a place that understood childhood was sacred time, not to be rushed.

The businesses closed and changed and disappeared—Bernard's became Ground Round became Laddy's became memory. But something essential remained, something in the very air of the place that shaped us. We learned loyalty at Western Bowl and independence at the pools. We learned friendship in the aisles of Kmart and courage on the ice at North Jeffco Arena. We learned that home isn't just where you're from—it's where they know your story, where your teenage self is remembered with fondness, where the smell of Jolly Ranchers can still make you believe in magic.

They tore down Chuck E. Cheese and built something else. They changed the names and paved the fields and put in developments where we used to ride our bikes. But they couldn't tear down what we carried with us—this sense of place, this knowledge of what it felt like to belong somewhere completely.

We were Arvada kids. We grew up breathing sweet air and believing in tomorrow. We learned that a small town could hold big dreams, that ordinary moments could feel like everything, that home was a place you carried in your heart long after you'd grown up and moved away.

And sometimes, even now, when the wind is just right, we swear we can still smell what flavor they're making today.

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